I'm really not a fan of dragging someone through hell/getting them fired/ "cancelling" them because of things they said a decade or more ago. I'm not the same person I was last year, let alone when I was in my twenties or teens. I'd like to think I've grown and learned and broadened my horizons, why can't other people have too? Social media was such a different environment back in its infancy and the world in general was different. If people have changed for the better, they should be able to apologise for their "mistakes" and be judged on who they are now in this moment.
From a personal perspective - I love learning new things. If someone has something to teach me, I'll find the time to listen. I find it so stimulating to hear from people with different viewpoints, different knowledge bases etc and now I'm older I'm much more flexible in my own view point. If I find out new information, I'll take that on board and adapt, rather than putting my fingers in my ears and pretending it doesn't exist. I LOVE Kenzies posts by the way.
P.S - Hot Girl Summer Update - am now regularly having some of the best sex I've ever had in my adult life - mutually gratifying, adventurous and ticking Every. Damn. Box. Inhibitions? Wtf are those? ;)
Appreciate this perspective very much Raych, always grateful for your shares! 💜
And rahhhhhh this update is everything I needed!! Cheering you on in all of these adventures (from over here, not like, in the actual room. Although if that's your thing I'm sure you can find cheerleaders for that?). Sending love!
I am a strong believer that people change and learn and should be allowed to make mistakes to get there. I am slowly unpacking a childhood of ‘mistakes and failures are not an option’ and allowing myself to fuck up without the incredible terror that the world is going ro end is A LOT.
While I will not judge others for making mistakes, i am a lot harder on myself. But i’m learning from it :)
Not just you at all. I know it's corny but I'm a firm believer of the saying "you learn something new everyday", even if it's something you thought you already knew! LoL
I'm really not a fan of dragging someone through hell/getting them fired/ "cancelling" them because of things they said a decade or more ago. I'm not the same person I was last year, let alone when I was in my twenties or teens. I'd like to think I've grown and learned and broadened my horizons, why can't other people have too? Social media was such a different environment back in its infancy and the world in general was different. If people have changed for the better, they should be able to apologise for their "mistakes" and be judged on who they are now in this moment.
From a personal perspective - I love learning new things. If someone has something to teach me, I'll find the time to listen. I find it so stimulating to hear from people with different viewpoints, different knowledge bases etc and now I'm older I'm much more flexible in my own view point. If I find out new information, I'll take that on board and adapt, rather than putting my fingers in my ears and pretending it doesn't exist. I LOVE Kenzies posts by the way.
P.S - Hot Girl Summer Update - am now regularly having some of the best sex I've ever had in my adult life - mutually gratifying, adventurous and ticking Every. Damn. Box. Inhibitions? Wtf are those? ;)
Appreciate this perspective very much Raych, always grateful for your shares! 💜
And rahhhhhh this update is everything I needed!! Cheering you on in all of these adventures (from over here, not like, in the actual room. Although if that's your thing I'm sure you can find cheerleaders for that?). Sending love!
Not just you
Thank you thank youuu 💜
I am a strong believer that people change and learn and should be allowed to make mistakes to get there. I am slowly unpacking a childhood of ‘mistakes and failures are not an option’ and allowing myself to fuck up without the incredible terror that the world is going ro end is A LOT.
While I will not judge others for making mistakes, i am a lot harder on myself. But i’m learning from it :)
Not just you at all. I know it's corny but I'm a firm believer of the saying "you learn something new everyday", even if it's something you thought you already knew! LoL