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Hannah Gardiner's avatar

Jesus Christ. I’m sat in a bar in the middle of Murcia spain on my own reading this and trying to contain my watery eyes. I ended a relationship 2 months ago, it was only a year a half, and I loved him so so much. It was a love that I had never felt and I got completely Blind sighted. But I was already Hannah 2.0 and I had learned that love wasn’t enough. My boundaries weren’t being respected. His words and actions didn’t align. Often I didn’t feel loved in the way I wanted because he couldn’t make space to love me how I need. And Hannah 2.0 chose herself and it was fucking the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Sometimes I wish I didn’t do it. But then I know that there’s this Hannah 3.0 that I cannot understand or imagine yet but I feel her and she’s the only thing that’s getting me through this horrendous heartbreak. And reading this literally reaffirmed everything. Thank you so much❤️

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Meg's avatar

I remember that feeling. It’s fucking awful. But, I am so proud of myself and who I have become post-breakup, that I will always maintain that my breakup was simultaneously the best and worst thing to ever happen to me.

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