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Kate's avatar

Thank you for calling out the nearly invisible normalized judgement around needing rest. You're spot-on, and speaking as someone who absolutely has a habit of judging herself for needing rest, you've given me lots to think about. Thank you. ❤️

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Megan Jayne Crabbe's avatar

Wishing you a restorative month Kate! 💜

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Kate's avatar

Thank you! You as well!!

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Michelle Elman's avatar

So much joy in a month! And happy anniversary - a huge accomplishment! ❤️🥰

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Dinah's avatar

Congrats on writing a children’s book, Michelle, this is wonderful news 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

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Lozze's avatar

I needed to hear this today - I still struggle mentally with rest and I’m at home with tonsillitis this weekend after powering through this week with both me and both my kids under 5 full of cold and staying mostly indoors rather than enjoying the summer sun.

Rest is a physical need. And heaping guilt on top of fatigue is not going to help me get better!!

Keep up the awesome work you wonderful human 💜

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Megan Jayne Crabbe's avatar

Wishing you deep healing and all the rest you need! 💜💜

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Gemma B's avatar

Wishing you some super chilled out rest <3 I hope the tonsilitis is much better soon!

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Dinah's avatar

Tonsillitis is sooooo horrible, sending love to your poor throat, and the motherly fatigue xxxxxx

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Stella's avatar

Yay I love it when the newsletter drops! (though I'm always like: where did the time go??) Always lovely to hear about what you've been up to. Tbh August was masters dissertation writing season which has continued into September. But I also found time to spend time with people I love and it's so fulfilling to do that. & I've been settling into a new house share with new housemates. Phew! September is for resting and getting more life in the work life balance 💃

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Megan Jayne Crabbe's avatar

It sounds like you smashed August Stella! 💪🏽 yes to more life in September and also plenty of recognition of your own badassery please 💜

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Trisha's avatar

I'm so happy that you continue writing these updates about your life and your internal dialog. It helps me pause and ask myself questions that I may not have taken the time to ask. It brings me joy to see you experiencing joy. Thank you for being you, out loud, in public, for the whole world to admire.

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Megan Jayne Crabbe's avatar

Owhh thank you so much Trisha 💜 this was a lovely, validating comment to read and I appreciate it very much! 🌞

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Alex's avatar

Happy one year (to you and this community!!) I feel very lucky to get a glimpse of your life and share in your joy - and also have your words each month reminding me to treat myself with more kindness, and look for all the colour and joy in my own life. Thank you xo

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Megan Jayne Crabbe's avatar

Thank you Alex! I love that you feel this - more colour and joy 💜🌈

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Amy's avatar

You are the supportive grounded growing and wise big sister energy I’ve needed. Thank you. Taking a socials detox - honestly yours is the content I’d miss the most, but thankfully not with the email subscription 🫶 big love big thank you, you’ve helped me on my journey more than could know. Xx

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Megan Jayne Crabbe's avatar

Amy this is such a beautiful comment, I wish I could give you a massive hug right now! Thank you for being here and carrying on the journey for yourself, I'm wishing you so much peace and self-kindness 💜💜

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Rachael's avatar

Wow Megan that's a lot in one month absolutely amazing well done super ✨ sounds all great fun but socialising can be tiring nonetheless.

I am sending extra love and hugs to anyone who may need this right now. From the north sending love up and down the country wherever you may be here is a hug! I hope everyone is doing as well as can be.

It's a busy time for me. I did my radio interview wow it was amazing I can't wait to become a radio presenter in the future.

I'm packing up and moving to uni halls soon it's a stressful time but seriously can't wait only 10 sleeps to go in my current home then I'm off. It will be great fun but with chronic health it's the added pressure I am trying to go with the flow but I must admit I am putting that cover up the mask and pretending I'm ok to most people but deep down it's all stressful and too much as I'm flaring with health conditions and major anxiety I'm sure it will be worth it.

Send all the positive vibes to me up north please.

Big hugs Rachael 🥰🩷🤗

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Megan Jayne Crabbe's avatar

Sending you a lot of luck and love, Rachael! Exciting times ahead, I hope you can take it one day at a time and get the rest you need in between the busyness! Congrats on the interview, I thought you would smash it 💜

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Marissa's avatar

Congrats Rachael!

Goodluck with moving!

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Rachael's avatar

Thank you lovely one!

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Gemma B's avatar

Congrats on your radio interview Rachael that sounds so exciting! And sending the best of luck as you move into halls, it sounds like it's a huge challenge especially with your health conditions but I believe in you 💪 It's ok to not be ok too though. Sending a hug from the south <3

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Rachael's avatar

Aww thank you so much , it's worth fighting for I'm sure it's going to be the best time of my life I can feel it , sending hugs back from north 💖 xx

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Megan Ave’Lallemant's avatar

Love to see you doing so well, Megan! Do you know The Nap Ministry started by Tricia Hersey? The framing of Rest as resistance has really helped me and my self-critical talk. She’s got a really cool card deck too. @thenapministry on IG or thenapministry.com

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Megan Jayne Crabbe's avatar

I've seen them mentioned a lot but haven't properly checked them out myself - thank you for the reminder! 💜

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lila's avatar

soooo much love to you megan!! You are so deserving of all this rest and ease. so happy to hear about these beautiful events with Char. And thank you for sharing in last month’s comments in response to my questions about how she has really helped you grow. what a gift!

i’m starting my senior year of college (after summer in san francisco) and feeling so at peace and grateful and blessed. big hugs!

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Megan Jayne Crabbe's avatar

Wow what a beautiful bunch of feelings Lila! May they continue to carry you through this next season 🤗💜

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Marissa's avatar

Loved this!!

Happy 1 year! WOW! Been an OG with “Is It Just Me Or?” absolutely adore how seen and heard your articles makes me feel!

Love your newsletter and so happy you’ve been having moments of joy and sunshine!

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Megan Jayne Crabbe's avatar

Thank you so much for sticking around Marissa! I appreciate you and the kindness you've shared here, I hope you're giving some back to you as well 🥰💜

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Dinah's avatar

How mean our tired brains can be to ourselves, sending love to all of us who struggle to accept tiredness ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I LOVE YOU, MJC 😘😘😘😘😘😘

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Anna's avatar

Sounds like an amazing time! 🤩

I'm right now for the first time in my adult life on a very "boring" holiday and allow myself to just relax. I'm lying at the pool or the beach reading, frolick in the water and I eat plenty of very nice Italian food... New motto: An arrancino a day keeps the doctor away?!

I alwasy thought of this type of holiday being a bit dull (very arrogant and judgmental of me!), but this was just what I needed and I'm so happy to be here 😊

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Megan Jayne Crabbe's avatar

Yay to trying new things and challenging old perceptions (and arancini 🤤)! Enjoy! You deserve deep rest and ease 💜💜

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Samantha Mancia's avatar

Congrats on one year! It's definitely continued to brighten my day when I see your letter in my inbox. Serves as a reminder that there are affirming voices in the world advocating for acceptance and kindness in contrast to much of the negativity and toxicity we're exposed to. 🫶

Not much to report this month on my end, I've been keeping myself a bit too busy with work and helping family but am trying to take moments for self care, like the massage and takeout I treated myself to today. 💆🏼‍♀️

I also booked a girl's trip for next month which I'm super excited about and is long overdue 🤗🛫

Sending 🩷💜🩵

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Megan Jayne Crabbe's avatar

Thank you for continuing to be a kind and encouraging voice here Samantha! I see and appreciate you, and wishing you more massages + takeout in the near future! 💜

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Gemma B's avatar

Congratulations on 1 year Megan! It's a pleasure to hear your thoughts, support and news <3

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Megan Jayne Crabbe's avatar

Heather this is such a brave and beautiful reflection, thank you for sharing it with us 💜 I imagine it feels like a scary time, but you are absolutely doing the right thing by committing to recovery - you already know how things end up when you go the other way, and you deserve better. Cheering you on from over here, you've got this 💜💜

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