Thank you for this lovely and supportive sentiment <3. It also seems like there are strong shame elements associated with it too - especially for women. How much is too much, how little is too little? Are you a slut or frigid? So much closes this conversation for women, even with each other. So thank you for this.
Exactly this! We are people, as it turns out, and are capable of being both sexual and non-sexual beings at different points. Letting it be what it is is the best advice. <3
How d’you just know all this? Really? You’re so bloody right - I can feel like a different sexual being/non-sexual being in any moment of any day 🤷🏼♀️
The tricky part is listening to yourself and not feeling like you need to pretend one way or the other! (having wonderful self-loving role models to look up to helps with the knowing) 💜
Thank you for this lovely and supportive sentiment <3. It also seems like there are strong shame elements associated with it too - especially for women. How much is too much, how little is too little? Are you a slut or frigid? So much closes this conversation for women, even with each other. So thank you for this.
Absolutely! So many binary ways to label us and not enough letting us just explore things for ourselves and let it be what it is! 💜
Exactly this! We are people, as it turns out, and are capable of being both sexual and non-sexual beings at different points. Letting it be what it is is the best advice. <3
How d’you just know all this? Really? You’re so bloody right - I can feel like a different sexual being/non-sexual being in any moment of any day 🤷🏼♀️
The tricky part is listening to yourself and not feeling like you need to pretend one way or the other! (having wonderful self-loving role models to look up to helps with the knowing) 💜