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Rebecca's avatar

Happy belated birthday to Gemma! I'm in my first relationship with a woman and I completely agree with you about the male gaze. I feel like I don't have to perform anymore and I don't need to be looking any certain way. I can just authentically be me and I love it! 🥰

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Chelsea F's avatar

Happy belated birthday to Gemma & hell yeah for double Lizzo🎊🙌🏼🙌🏼💐💐

(My birthday is on Wednesday & I'm celebrating for the first time since COVID started. Hoping to have as much fun as you & Gemma did😊)

I'm so glad you're feeling better and in a healthier place. That is absolutely beautiful. I finally passed probation on my new job which was very exciting (makes the cross country move & scary life choices seem worth it).

I am almost 8 months into a new relationship & he's caught me trying to be my "best" self constantly & has said more than once I'm not here for your "best" self, I'm just here for you.

It's really hard habit to break but I'm grateful to have the space to try.

Thank you for the update and I hope you have a wonderful April 💐💞

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