Hello my loves, this is an impromptu slide into ur emails with an invitation! The world feels kinda bleak from where I’m sitting today, and I would love for you to come share some good news on this thread to brighten things up 🌞 Could be personal, global or anything in between! Paid and free subscribers are both welcome. Bring on the good news 🥰
I'll start: this week I took myself to a taster session for a pop choir and it was a lot of fun! I'm proud of myself for prioritising something joyful and believing I deserve that. I'm hoping that feeling sticks around 🥰
I quit my steady job to follow my passion and perform on stage in a musical. I'm still scared for what's to come, but after every rehearsal, I know I made the right decision.
As a single woman, it can be hard to fill my days with activities that make me feel loved. Last night, I ate a warm home-cooked meal, showered and then gently massaged lotion onto my body, drank a cup of tea, and read in bed. Trying to give my body the love I crave from others.
Getting to know my new rescue bunnies, Sunny & Stella. I don't know how bunnies fit so much cute in them and another bonus point is less time looking at phone/tv screens! x
My good news is that for 1.5 years I could count how many hugs I had on one hand (it was 2, the pandemic is tough on us all in many ways!) My good news this week was that I got 5 hugs in one weekend! What a beautiful thing that I will never take for granted again.
Sending hugs to anyone who might be wanting or needing them today <3
Love this for you Lauren. Last week I was on the sofa snuggled up with Gemma and realised how lovely it was to not have that fear of going near her that I had over the year that she was shielding and I was still doing carer shifts. Definitely worth being grateful for 💜
I took two days off and filled them with nothing but things that made me happy - knitting, baking, the switch, criminal minds and journaling. Pure bliss.
I had an epiphany today that even though there have been a lot of people who told me in the past months that I should look for a new profession, it's not me who's in the wrong.
I'm training to become a midwife and fucking love it, I soake up all the knowledge that I can, sitting in the lessons like a child in Christmas Eve and love the bond that I can built with the labouring and birthing person.
I took a fall for being too sensitive and empathetic, but that's also my greatest power in the Job.
I've been getting back into reading again, and it makes my heart so happy! On some mornings, I will spend 20 min cuddling under cozy blankets with my dog, listening to lofi, drinking tea, and reading something that brings me joy.
I hope everyone has a great day! Sending everyone happy vibes! <3
ooh ok! I just finished Like Crazy by Dan Mathews- it had some sad and very emotional parts, but was also uplifting and funny and interesting! I learned about Dan Mathews from Mayim Bialik's Breakdown podcast :) I also liked The Lazy Genius by Kendra Adachi <3 And now I'm reading Crazy Rich Asians!
My boyfriend finally found a job he likes after 2 years of unemployment and one of my friends finally realized that she is with an abusive partner and we're helping her leaving him and moving on! Also I've started sponsoring a dog at my local shelter and can't wait to meet him ❤️
I finally found a occupation I really love: therapist for children and adolescents and I almost completed my clinical phase to get state recognition which ist a huge step closer to my goal.
My husband and I decided to try to become parents 💕 this is my first week without birthcontrol since 17 years, my body's having a party 😂 but I cant wait for everything new to come ❤️ much love from Germany!
I left my abusive husband 14 months ago, my children and I have been living with my parents this whole time. We have finally got a house and are moving into it in November, so flipping excited!!!!
My husband and I are going on holiday tomorrow for our 5th wedding anniversary (staying in the UK but lush to get away) and I can't wait to spend some time at the seaside eating fish and chips! Also, autumn means blanket season is here and who doesn't love being snuggled up 🥰
2 years ago I reconnected with an old school friend in Sydney, I'm in UK, and he just phoned to tell me he loves me and is coming to see me in December. I have been single for over 20 years and have various chronic illnesses, I cannot believe we have this chance.
Last night I had a lovely home cooked dinner, did some chores, and walked the pups with my husband! It was so nice to be productive and enjoy each other’s company.
I just moved to New England and am experiencing my first fall in years (I lived in LA before - no seasons there) I've been writing and drinking tea and enjoying the chilly mornings:)
First off, sending virtual hugs if you want them ❤️
As far as good things, it's morning for me in the US and I just did my physical therapy and I feel calm and ready for the day. That's pretty darn good for me. Also, it rained last night here in Los Angeles, which is always great for us 🙂
Haha Katie I love that the time difference means I catch you at the start of your day! Gratefully accepting this hug and sending one back, wishing you lots of good things 💜
I've been accessing low cost talking therapy through Mind and I realised after my session today that it's really helping. Only a small positive, but a big one for me :)
Accepted a job offer for a new job where I'll make 40%(!!) more than what I currently do and with a better work culture. <3 Hoping these good vibes are infectious.
Headed to the beach for a few days which is a welcome reprieve from staring at the same 4 walls day in and day out. Purchased tickets for a show next year which feels like there's finally something to look forward to aside from school and work!
had an exposure and our family of 3 and now have all tested negative. we are leaning into using tablets, shows, and games at home while we show love and care for those around us!
I just discovered Alessia Cara, I've been playing her non-stop for the last couple days, and Okay Okay still makes me especially happy. Also my cat just turned two and is finally slowing down enough to take a nap next to me every day.
After twisting my ankle at work (thanks to a lively donkey) I'm spending my time off watching Shaun the Sheep and making a start on a wildlife photography course. Relaxation and recovery but with a bit of productivity thrown in.
Finding a new flower that I have never seen before on one of my houseplants. With everything slowly turning brown and dying off outside it was such a beautiful surprise. Sending lots of flower power and hugs to anyone who needs/wants it 🌸
The last two weekends I got to travel to two different German cities (I'm from The Netherlands) to see two of my favourite bands play live. Going to concerts is what I've missed most over the pandemic, so it feels so good that going to concerts and traveling to foreign cities for the weekend is coming back. Finally feel like I'm coming back to being myself again.
I ended it with my boyfriend cause it just wasn’t right. It’s a good thing because even though we love eachother we want the best for eachother and our differences we’re too much to carry on. It’s really sad but has given me hope for the future ❤️
Tonight I have an interview for a job that sounds pretty much perfect. It would mean moving back to a city that I love, being closer to my family, and would give me time to start training to be a child therapist. Also, I have Nutella brownies!
My good news is that I am going to start studying what I really love next week. Going through tough days but that brings some excitement to my life! <3
I quit my soul sucking Corp. Job about 6 months ago so...Today I slept in as long as my body needed, had a donut with my love in a bed filled with cuddly, cute animals and now I'm in a hot bath about to share some plant medicine with my partner 💗 I'm sending so much of this energy your way soul sis, I hope the sun shines on you today.
I have gotten to enjoy so many fall activities and get to do a nighttime corn maze for the first time, I have a 3 day weekend coming up and next Monday is my and my partners 2 year anniversary.
This week I'm realizing how far I've come with regards to how I love my body. I underwent a surgery last week which jolted my confidence - which is normal, for sure. But, it has been nice to reflect and realize that I've learned how to not collide my appearance and how my body is struggling with my self-worth. I'm still a work in progress! You've helped me a lot through it all, Megan. Thanks for sliding into my emails (consensually!) <3
I finally built up the courage to join a support group to help myself grieve the loss of my fiancé to suicide. I'm looking forward to getting some help from people who understand what I'm going through instead of suffering alone. I'm proud of myself for doing something healing.
This is a huge step and I hope it brings you the comfort and solidarity that you deserve. Sending much love your way (and if you're ever looking for reading that could provide the same feeling, Poorna Bell writes beautifully on having experiences this in her books and on social media) 💜💜
Thank you! I will def check out Poorna Bell when I finish my current book, Sitting Pretty!! And BTW, you can pick books for me like nobody else on 🌎! Keep up the amazing work, your reading recs alone keep me strong!! Along with SOOOOO much else that you do!!!!! You are a good human @meganjaynecrabbe !!
My job is most likely moving to completely remote, so home ownership is becoming more of an obtainable goal and less of a pipe dream as I can look for places outside of the (frightfully expensive) city since there’s no need to commute to the on campus location! I also really enjoy working from home, so wins all around. I’m already dreaming of backyard lawns and a new puppy family member
Im beginning to realize I need to take care of myself and not worry about everyone else. I have a big heart. So Im reminding myself lately dont worry about nobody but you.
I quit my study last week and now im taking a year to work and do stuff that makes me happy. It was a really big step for me and im super proud of myself for doing what makes me happy. Its also been almost a year ago i read body positivity power, which has completely changed my life in such a good way.
I found some extra tomatoes on my one plant that lived and I'm going to roast them and preserve them ala Nigel Slater so I can enjoy this tiny summer bounty when it's cold and miserable.
I went apple picking this past weekend and am excited about all the apple-y things I’m going to make! Also, I’ve finally wrapped up the job that was making me miserable and I’m a month into a new university program (first time in classes in eight years) so things feel very bright despite the overcast day. In Canada the upcoming weekend is a 3-day weekend as well and I can’t wait to get out of the city!
So much pleasure to be had from hunting for conkers and bringing the shiny beauties back home. Nothing more satisfying than carefully lifting them from their spiky jackets and filling up my pockets!
When working with a mum today telling her she seems so natural with her baby, how settled he seems with her and her smile of pride in herself. A glimmer of hope.
My sister is coming home for her birthday next week and we’re going to order in. Sounds like a regular thing but she lives in a care home so visiting has been really restricted and she hardly leaves her home. It will be so nice to do something “normal” again.
After an insane pandemic season, I’ve just moved to the UK from the US, started a Masters course that was basically just created and the nuance perfectly marries the things I love (there’s like no courses like it in the world), and I’m living alone for the first time. After a very steep learning curve and battling many moments unexpected obstacles, and moments of “oh shit can I actually do this? Did I make a mistake? Am I actually smart enough for this degree or independent/capable enough to live alone?” I’m happy to say I’m finally settling in and feeling like a major badass. Finally bringing that self talk back to a place “yeah bitch you got this, and you’re gonna kick ass” 👏🏼🎉✨🥳
On another side note: whatever you’re going through rn - you’ve got this. Think back to little Meghan and remember all that you are and all that you’ve done and experienced, and how she would see you right now. This too shall pass. And remember, even when it’s the darkest around you, there is always light available to you, because YOU ARE the light ✨✨✨ for yourself, and so many others
❤️❤️❤️ you really really help me remember to show up for myself with love, authenticity and grace. You’ve inspired me so profoundly and helped me so much I cannot emphasize this enough. Thank you for your authenticity, honesty, compassion (for yourself and others), patience, love, wisdom, and absolutely incredible underwear dance party reminders. They are a must for me now, esp living alone. So much love to you (and Gemma too!). She’s such a hysterical badass 👏🏼❤️✨
My parents moved out of province (Canada) and it is a 16hr drive to see them, but with Covid on a rampant rise we haven’t really been able to see them. Recently my siblings and I decided to buy a little stained glass window set of a portion of the Rockies where they grew up and we are really excited to give them a little taste of home. :D
I'll start: this week I took myself to a taster session for a pop choir and it was a lot of fun! I'm proud of myself for prioritising something joyful and believing I deserve that. I'm hoping that feeling sticks around 🥰
I quit my steady job to follow my passion and perform on stage in a musical. I'm still scared for what's to come, but after every rehearsal, I know I made the right decision.
As a single woman, it can be hard to fill my days with activities that make me feel loved. Last night, I ate a warm home-cooked meal, showered and then gently massaged lotion onto my body, drank a cup of tea, and read in bed. Trying to give my body the love I crave from others.
This is beautiful Nicole and exactly what you deserve, thank you for setting the example! 💜
I adore you 💓
Getting to know my new rescue bunnies, Sunny & Stella. I don't know how bunnies fit so much cute in them and another bonus point is less time looking at phone/tv screens! x
BUNNIEEESSSSS. The fact alone that bunnies exist makes things brighter. 💜
I have rescue bunnies too! They're so cute (even when chewing on everything in the house lol). I just love when they binky around ❤️
My good news is that for 1.5 years I could count how many hugs I had on one hand (it was 2, the pandemic is tough on us all in many ways!) My good news this week was that I got 5 hugs in one weekend! What a beautiful thing that I will never take for granted again.
Sending hugs to anyone who might be wanting or needing them today <3
Love this for you Lauren. Last week I was on the sofa snuggled up with Gemma and realised how lovely it was to not have that fear of going near her that I had over the year that she was shielding and I was still doing carer shifts. Definitely worth being grateful for 💜
This warms my heart - I so feel that <3 <3
I took two days off and filled them with nothing but things that made me happy - knitting, baking, the switch, criminal minds and journaling. Pure bliss.
Love this for you Nicole!! 💜
I had an epiphany today that even though there have been a lot of people who told me in the past months that I should look for a new profession, it's not me who's in the wrong.
I'm training to become a midwife and fucking love it, I soake up all the knowledge that I can, sitting in the lessons like a child in Christmas Eve and love the bond that I can built with the labouring and birthing person.
I took a fall for being too sensitive and empathetic, but that's also my greatest power in the Job.
Hope you have fantastic week, lots of love xxx
I've been getting back into reading again, and it makes my heart so happy! On some mornings, I will spend 20 min cuddling under cozy blankets with my dog, listening to lofi, drinking tea, and reading something that brings me joy.
I hope everyone has a great day! Sending everyone happy vibes! <3
This sounds beyond perfect. Have you read anything worth shouting about so far? Always here for the recs! 💜
ooh ok! I just finished Like Crazy by Dan Mathews- it had some sad and very emotional parts, but was also uplifting and funny and interesting! I learned about Dan Mathews from Mayim Bialik's Breakdown podcast :) I also liked The Lazy Genius by Kendra Adachi <3 And now I'm reading Crazy Rich Asians!
After a week of excruciating back pain I was able to bend enough this morning to put on socks. I have toasty feets now 😂
Sending love to your back! (and toes) 💜
My boyfriend finally found a job he likes after 2 years of unemployment and one of my friends finally realized that she is with an abusive partner and we're helping her leaving him and moving on! Also I've started sponsoring a dog at my local shelter and can't wait to meet him ❤️
I finally found a occupation I really love: therapist for children and adolescents and I almost completed my clinical phase to get state recognition which ist a huge step closer to my goal.
My husband and I decided to try to become parents 💕 this is my first week without birthcontrol since 17 years, my body's having a party 😂 but I cant wait for everything new to come ❤️ much love from Germany!
I left my abusive husband 14 months ago, my children and I have been living with my parents this whole time. We have finally got a house and are moving into it in November, so flipping excited!!!!
This is incredible. YOU are incredible. Thank you thank you thank you 💜
Thank you 😊
I finished an entire coloring page before moving on to a different one.
My husband and I are going on holiday tomorrow for our 5th wedding anniversary (staying in the UK but lush to get away) and I can't wait to spend some time at the seaside eating fish and chips! Also, autumn means blanket season is here and who doesn't love being snuggled up 🥰
Yes yes and yes! Also, which seaside if you don't mind me asking? 👀
Heading to Whitby - looking forward to making a spooky visit to Dracula's "grave" too 🥰✌️🧛♂️
2 years ago I reconnected with an old school friend in Sydney, I'm in UK, and he just phoned to tell me he loves me and is coming to see me in December. I have been single for over 20 years and have various chronic illnesses, I cannot believe we have this chance.
Why did this comment give me goosebumps on my face?? This is beautiful. Update us in December please 💜
This gives me so much hope. Single for 12 years with various chronic illnesses as well. Thank you for sharing this.
I made my 3 month old baby nephew laugh for the first time and it just instantly filled my heart with joy!!
Last night I had a lovely home cooked dinner, did some chores, and walked the pups with my husband! It was so nice to be productive and enjoy each other’s company.
I finally, after weeks of putting it off through fear, sent a press release about my book.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
WOOOOOO!
I just moved to New England and am experiencing my first fall in years (I lived in LA before - no seasons there) I've been writing and drinking tea and enjoying the chilly mornings:)
welcome! 👋🏼
This is amazing! San Diego here-and really miss fall!!!
I feel this!! :) Congrats!! <3
First off, sending virtual hugs if you want them ❤️
As far as good things, it's morning for me in the US and I just did my physical therapy and I feel calm and ready for the day. That's pretty darn good for me. Also, it rained last night here in Los Angeles, which is always great for us 🙂
Hope things look brighter tomorrow for you!!
Haha Katie I love that the time difference means I catch you at the start of your day! Gratefully accepting this hug and sending one back, wishing you lots of good things 💜
Thank you so much! Really, that time difference is just perfect for me hahaha Wish you lots of good things as well!! ❤️
I've been decluttering the house and making money from the books, dvds and cds we don't need anymore, as well as loving having more space.
I've been accessing low cost talking therapy through Mind and I realised after my session today that it's really helping. Only a small positive, but a big one for me :)
Absolutely nothing small about this. Really happy for you Raych 💜
Accepted a job offer for a new job where I'll make 40%(!!) more than what I currently do and with a better work culture. <3 Hoping these good vibes are infectious.
Get it Dori!! 💜
Headed to the beach for a few days which is a welcome reprieve from staring at the same 4 walls day in and day out. Purchased tickets for a show next year which feels like there's finally something to look forward to aside from school and work!
had an exposure and our family of 3 and now have all tested negative. we are leaning into using tablets, shows, and games at home while we show love and care for those around us!
I just discovered Alessia Cara, I've been playing her non-stop for the last couple days, and Okay Okay still makes me especially happy. Also my cat just turned two and is finally slowing down enough to take a nap next to me every day.
Love love love this! Her older stuff is so great as well, Wild Things is one of my faves! 💜
My boyfriend just got a job!
After twisting my ankle at work (thanks to a lively donkey) I'm spending my time off watching Shaun the Sheep and making a start on a wildlife photography course. Relaxation and recovery but with a bit of productivity thrown in.
Well this had to win most unexpected comment - so many animals in one sentence! 💜
🤣 animals are my happy place they're just so pure.
I just completed the first course (out of seven) in a certificate program that I’m earning so I can pivot into a new career. ✨
I am beginning to come out to friends as non-binary and am finally feeling gender bliss. 🥰🥰🥰
Gender bliss! Love that for you Anna :) 💜
Thank you so much 😭 🥰
Finding a new flower that I have never seen before on one of my houseplants. With everything slowly turning brown and dying off outside it was such a beautiful surprise. Sending lots of flower power and hugs to anyone who needs/wants it 🌸
Oh that's lovely. What does it look like? I wish you could reply with photos here! 💜
So do I! It’s bright pink and has three small petals which stands out against the plant itself (Tradescantia pallida) 💜
The last two weekends I got to travel to two different German cities (I'm from The Netherlands) to see two of my favourite bands play live. Going to concerts is what I've missed most over the pandemic, so it feels so good that going to concerts and traveling to foreign cities for the weekend is coming back. Finally feel like I'm coming back to being myself again.
I ended it with my boyfriend cause it just wasn’t right. It’s a good thing because even though we love eachother we want the best for eachother and our differences we’re too much to carry on. It’s really sad but has given me hope for the future ❤️
Sending you a massive hug Lucy, you did something really brave 💜
Tonight I have an interview for a job that sounds pretty much perfect. It would mean moving back to a city that I love, being closer to my family, and would give me time to start training to be a child therapist. Also, I have Nutella brownies!
Woah, so much good news! Yes Shona! 💜
My good news is that I am going to start studying what I really love next week. Going through tough days but that brings some excitement to my life! <3
I quit my soul sucking Corp. Job about 6 months ago so...Today I slept in as long as my body needed, had a donut with my love in a bed filled with cuddly, cute animals and now I'm in a hot bath about to share some plant medicine with my partner 💗 I'm sending so much of this energy your way soul sis, I hope the sun shines on you today.
This comment made me feel all warm. I love this for you. Wishing you lots and lots more 💜
I hope you have a bevy of heart swelling moments of happiness today 💗
I have gotten to enjoy so many fall activities and get to do a nighttime corn maze for the first time, I have a 3 day weekend coming up and next Monday is my and my partners 2 year anniversary.
This week I'm realizing how far I've come with regards to how I love my body. I underwent a surgery last week which jolted my confidence - which is normal, for sure. But, it has been nice to reflect and realize that I've learned how to not collide my appearance and how my body is struggling with my self-worth. I'm still a work in progress! You've helped me a lot through it all, Megan. Thanks for sliding into my emails (consensually!) <3
Saumya this is amazing and you absolutely deserve to feel proud. Wishing you lots of gentleness in the healing and sending love 💜💜
I finally built up the courage to join a support group to help myself grieve the loss of my fiancé to suicide. I'm looking forward to getting some help from people who understand what I'm going through instead of suffering alone. I'm proud of myself for doing something healing.
This is a huge step and I hope it brings you the comfort and solidarity that you deserve. Sending much love your way (and if you're ever looking for reading that could provide the same feeling, Poorna Bell writes beautifully on having experiences this in her books and on social media) 💜💜
Thank you! I will def check out Poorna Bell when I finish my current book, Sitting Pretty!! And BTW, you can pick books for me like nobody else on 🌎! Keep up the amazing work, your reading recs alone keep me strong!! Along with SOOOOO much else that you do!!!!! You are a good human @meganjaynecrabbe !!
My job is most likely moving to completely remote, so home ownership is becoming more of an obtainable goal and less of a pipe dream as I can look for places outside of the (frightfully expensive) city since there’s no need to commute to the on campus location! I also really enjoy working from home, so wins all around. I’m already dreaming of backyard lawns and a new puppy family member
Puppyyyyyyyy! I would like a picture when this becomes reality please 💜
Im beginning to realize I need to take care of myself and not worry about everyone else. I have a big heart. So Im reminding myself lately dont worry about nobody but you.
Sometimes that's all we have the capacity for and that's ok! 💜
Thank you! ❤
I quit my study last week and now im taking a year to work and do stuff that makes me happy. It was a really big step for me and im super proud of myself for doing what makes me happy. Its also been almost a year ago i read body positivity power, which has completely changed my life in such a good way.
I'm so happy for you Marjolein! I hope this year brings you everything you deserve to feel 💜
I found some extra tomatoes on my one plant that lived and I'm going to roast them and preserve them ala Nigel Slater so I can enjoy this tiny summer bounty when it's cold and miserable.
Yummmmmm 💜
I went apple picking this past weekend and am excited about all the apple-y things I’m going to make! Also, I’ve finally wrapped up the job that was making me miserable and I’m a month into a new university program (first time in classes in eight years) so things feel very bright despite the overcast day. In Canada the upcoming weekend is a 3-day weekend as well and I can’t wait to get out of the city!
So much pleasure to be had from hunting for conkers and bringing the shiny beauties back home. Nothing more satisfying than carefully lifting them from their spiky jackets and filling up my pockets!
When working with a mum today telling her she seems so natural with her baby, how settled he seems with her and her smile of pride in herself. A glimmer of hope.
My sister is coming home for her birthday next week and we’re going to order in. Sounds like a regular thing but she lives in a care home so visiting has been really restricted and she hardly leaves her home. It will be so nice to do something “normal” again.
After an insane pandemic season, I’ve just moved to the UK from the US, started a Masters course that was basically just created and the nuance perfectly marries the things I love (there’s like no courses like it in the world), and I’m living alone for the first time. After a very steep learning curve and battling many moments unexpected obstacles, and moments of “oh shit can I actually do this? Did I make a mistake? Am I actually smart enough for this degree or independent/capable enough to live alone?” I’m happy to say I’m finally settling in and feeling like a major badass. Finally bringing that self talk back to a place “yeah bitch you got this, and you’re gonna kick ass” 👏🏼🎉✨🥳
Zoeeeee thank you for the inspiration and for showing up for yourself like this! Definitely an example I needed to hear right now. Sending you love! 💜
On another side note: whatever you’re going through rn - you’ve got this. Think back to little Meghan and remember all that you are and all that you’ve done and experienced, and how she would see you right now. This too shall pass. And remember, even when it’s the darkest around you, there is always light available to you, because YOU ARE the light ✨✨✨ for yourself, and so many others
❤️❤️❤️ you really really help me remember to show up for myself with love, authenticity and grace. You’ve inspired me so profoundly and helped me so much I cannot emphasize this enough. Thank you for your authenticity, honesty, compassion (for yourself and others), patience, love, wisdom, and absolutely incredible underwear dance party reminders. They are a must for me now, esp living alone. So much love to you (and Gemma too!). She’s such a hysterical badass 👏🏼❤️✨
My parents moved out of province (Canada) and it is a 16hr drive to see them, but with Covid on a rampant rise we haven’t really been able to see them. Recently my siblings and I decided to buy a little stained glass window set of a portion of the Rockies where they grew up and we are really excited to give them a little taste of home. :D
This is such a lovely and thoughtful idea! :) I hope you get to see them soon 💜